Qualities Men Look Out For In Women

Published August 8, 2013 by WAREPAMOR SAMMY

Hello Ladies and Gentlemen, so there are some qualities men look out for in searching for the woman they want to spend the rest of their lives with, I have explained a few of these notable qualities below, such as:

LOVE: Men look out for women who love them truly for who they are, despite their flaws and short comings and inadequacies(this is not to say that men are happy with their flaws, short comings and inadequacies and don’t feel the need or see reasons to change or improve on them) they are not complacent. They desire women who love them not because of what they have acquired, or what they(the women) stand to benefit from the man i.e. money, power, fame, authority etc.
Men also look out for women who will love them indeed and in return for the love they have shown and given to them(the women) and also women who will love their family members as this will foster peace, love and unity between the man, his wife and their families.

RESPECT: Men love women who talk, address and treat them with respect at home and in public. They love to be shown respect in the presence of their family, friends, her friends and in the presence of their children, men also love women who don’t look down on them and compare them with other men.

ABILITY TO COOK: As it is commonly said ” The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach”. Every man loves women who can cook and are happy to have as a wife a woman who is good at cooking I mean not just cooking ordinarily but cooking tastefully,deliciously and able to serve the meal decently, this puts happiness in the family paves way for the man to be able to happily and proudly invite his friends home to savour his wife’s good cooking.

HUMILITY: As a woman, you are expected to be humble generally as a person and be humble towards your husband, his family and your family. Let humility be felt in your manner of conversation and communication, character, attitude and behaviour. Nothing takes off a man’s attention from a woman than when she is full of Pride and arrogance and tries to equate herself to the position of the husband as the head of the family. That is a complete turn off.

A GOOD LISTENER: A woman who has a listening ear and pays keen attention to the voice and directives of her husband is a Great bundle of joy to her husband, she is obedient to the voice of her husband which makes her well detailed and informed about the on goings in the family, she doesn’t make decisions without the consent, knowledge and permission of her husband.

UNDERSTANDING: Women that are “understanding” are the heart desire’s of all men, women who understand the times and season, when conditions and situations are pleasant and unpleasant, times when the storms of life surface unexpectedly. Men also love to know that the woman they are in love with understands their personality, moods, character, attitudes and understand their families(his family and her’s) and family backgrounds not just knowing them, because this will foster peaceful living in happiness between the husband, wife and their families.

PRAYERFUL: A Family that prays together stays together. Men love to know that the woman they are going to spend the rest of their lives with are committed to praying, always committing the family and the affairs of the family into the hands of the able and almighty God, women who turn to God in prayers for wisdom, knowledge, understanding and direction and commit whatever situations as they arise rather than just nagging, complaining and murmuring.

DISCIPLINE: Men love women who are disciplined in word and in character, women who are disciplined enough to know not to spend above what the man is earning, women who would not leave the upbringing of their children in the hands of an house help or house maid and would not tolerate decadence in her children but discipline and correct them when they go wrong and make decisions in accordance to her husband’s will.

ONE WHO IS NOT A TALKATIVE: Women who are talkatives are a complete turnoff to most men because most often they talk so much and fail in listening to the voice of their husbands. Women who also have no control over their mouths, one that is loose with her tongue in speaking and goes about discussing private family issues with all and sundry and gossips are a displeasure to most men.

WELL BEHAVED: Men love women who are well behaved right from their father’s house and in public, women who comport and conduct themselves properly in the presence of family and friends and not women who pretend to be well behaved around the man and in front of his eyes in order to get his attention and then turn around to be someone entirely different when he is not around, she must be able to take care of the home decently, neatly and in a well tidied manner.
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29 comments on “Qualities Men Look Out For In Women

  • Understanding a woman is sometimes easy and sometimes very difficult, I believe communication helps and with time TRUST develops… I like everything I read here and I think if u can get a lot of people to read this, it’ll be a good start


    • Thanks bro please let’s spread the as even as we keep commenting and get this to not just sound like a lecture but a discussion forum I was expecting someone to say more on what has been said,say something new or contradict what’s been said so far but it appears all those wwho have commented have spoken well however, I love. To learn so please our experienced friends kindly help a bro learn as we all prep for that lifetime decision.cheers and God bless


  • Nice piece i must commend however i wish to add a few things so with your kind permission i so write. Haven read books on love and all the many failed relationshipsn plus the ones around me working and failed one thing i have noticed is that real men like original women and by this i mean a woman who has been able to appreciate life not conform to the ills of the society,a woman with power not easily swayed even though lots of men wont overtly agree with me on this men like women who dont get pushed around or spoon fed men like daring women. women who want to be involved in every decision making process,they like a woman who knows what she is doing, woman who can compete and be competed with and woman who would not sit back and watch her man cry but go on her kneels and talk to the one who gave her the task of being mans help meet. A friend ones said that the reason why he is doing fine is becouse of the kind of woman he is with you just basically make yourself homely,attractive not provocatiuve becouse blunt guys like me would only see you as a sex symbol if not tool i mean dont you admire Liz Benson,Kte Henshaw,late Bimbo Odukoya,Stella Damascus? also for the married ones here or those aspiring to get married please dont fail to give your husbands a nice time in bed yes i said that. Women need to learn the art of dispute resolution even countries adopt silence,dialogue,violence,withdrawal of any initial comfort enjoyed by the other party a woman ones told her husband ”honey we need to bend over for each other sometimes so we dont break apart” so women know your man know which of the dispute resolution techniques work for him. i know people dont really like to read foreign relationship books like me but i recently red a book titled ” why men love bitches” not bitch like the sausy,proud,arrogant,sex toool kind of bitch but a woman who knows herself and wont stop till she gets it vis a vis carrying her man along to build his own she knows that relationship is about collective and individual development and not that woman who is all yessir to her man or whp is so dependent on him or who always wants to har or see him… men like to be left alone and same goes with womn so finally seek wisdom,wise counsel and study to show yoursef approved but not just Gods word but also study your spouse like a book it would guide you in home building.God bless us


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